Friday, December 28, 2007

Happy Anniversary, Baby

Going home last night from my in-laws for Py's death anniversary, my cousin regaled our group with stories about my nephew Pau. It seems that he felt so bad last Christmas because people were giving his elder sister more money than him. In fairness to my niece, her birthday is coming up (Jan. 3) and she could be charming in reminding people about it. My nephew, on the other hand, refuses to leave his mother's side and doesn't respond well to other people.

Suffice it to say, his sister might have gotten more than her share of confidence and charm.

So, anyway... people gave more aguinaldo to my niece. And when hubs and I arrived back home, we also had gifts for Duday (Barbie Ktchen set and pencil case). Duday is my goddaughter and hubs' brother actually bought so many gifts that were on sale in Subic, mostly gifts for girls, so we decided to buy some gifts from BIL (remember, we didn't plan on buying gifts for anyone? but also remember that these are relatives that are kinda economically-challenged?).

Hubs got off the cab (we left Maxime behind to avoid coding hassles) earlier to look for gifts for Pau. He bought two, a pirate ship and a motorcycle. Pau was ever so happy.

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Since Christmas, hubs and I have been sleeping in different beds. Why? Because my other niece Ela is staying with us too. We could make her sleep on the other bed but we felt that she might feel bad about being away from home and having to sleep away from me (supposedly her doting aunt).

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Hubs forked over some more money to send all the kids staying with us to Star City tonight... while he's going to be home late due to work.

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Maybe next year, we can properly celebrate our anniversary.

And maybe it's really pointless for me to want my husband to give me a bouquet of flowers just like the one I held on our wedding every anniversary.

Still, the stories above are a testament to just how generous and loving my husband is... giving me more reasons why I was right to choose him to be my partner.

I love you so much Baby, happy anniversary.
If I had an online business...

My friend (and her sisters) has recently joined the digiscrapping bandwagon. They got so good at it that they also decided to join the lucrative business of selling their own kits. They launched their own online shop to sell these kits from.

They needed a shopping cart software that's easy to use for those buying their digiscrapping kits. It's a good thing they found Ashop Commerce which not only accepts credit cards, but also comes in web-based form. 'No installation required' is a cool incentive for non-techie girls like them who are just creative people and want to earn on the side.

I had honestly thought of someday being good enough to sell my own digiscrapping kits too. For sure, I would also utilize the services of a shopping cart that offers hundreds of features, that's easily customized and that is truly user-friendly. After all, you wouldn't want to drive away prospective clients just because they cannot navigate your site.

Tuesday, December 25, 2007

Merry Christmas to all

The long first Christmas story with a child... something I don't really have time to write.

The short of it, however, is that Jojo and I are happy and thankful... and Yakee received loads of gifts... toys that his father are only too happy to sample and play with.

Anyway, here's a wonderful Christmas something that we'd like to share:

12 Christmas Wishes


1) Happiness, down deep inside
2) Serenity, at every sunrise
3) Success, in every facet of your life
4) Family beside you
5) Caringf riends around you
6) A love that never ends
7) Good health within you
8) Beautiful memories of yesterdays
9) A nice day with so much to be thankful for
10) A pathway leading to better tomorrows
11) Dreams that manage to come true, and
12) A great appreciation for whatever you do.

*~*

It's not to say that Christmas came and went without tears and difficulties for us... but we have much more to be thankful for... we have much to celebrate... we have more to look forward to.

The best is still to come.

Wednesday, December 19, 2007

Nifty, Thifty Gift Idea

I still feel sad somehow that am not shopping for and wrapping up gifts for anyone this year... am actually tempted to last-minute shop but given my energy levels and our budget constraints, it would really be unwise to do so.

But of course, I had to give myself something. Aside from buying parenting books on sale (for the family well-being) and different-brand wipes (just because), I also bought myself this bag from SM Baby Company.

It only cost P99.95 and holds eleven 6R-sized pictures (if you have the picture developed at Fujifilm, it'd be P7/picture).




My sister wants one... and we've decided i'd also make one for Mom. Isn't it a great, really thoughtful gift idea? That is, if you have hundreds of pictures of someone/someone else's child...

As a tote, it will do for a year at least... or two. The pictures aren't protected at all though.

Anyway, I can't wait to use this bag!!!

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And here are the digiscrapped pics I included there:



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btw, SIL said that the bag isn't durable at all... so prolong its use by not putting heavy things in it

Tuesday, December 18, 2007

Be Yourself Tag

I am so bad with tags esply these days that time for myself is stolen, at best... but since Yakee allows me to continue tinkering with the pc while he sleeps in my arms sometimes, I guess I can also say there's hope for me yet :)

I was tagged by trinity :)

1. Whats one thing thats heavily weighing on your mind?
~ the dialogue with hubs that we have yet to have about our plans for next year (and maybe the next five years)

2. what's one thing you've learned from a good friendship gone bad?
~ true friends, when they can't be at your side, will find ways to still make you feel that they were there

3. whats one thing you've learned lately from love?
~ love is a choice you make every day

4. is there anyone special in your life at the moment?
~ two actually :p

5. whats a happy time you've had in the past week/s?
~ everytime i get to sleep and Yakee smiles is a happy time

6. how far would you go for love?
~ honestly, I have no idea... but am almost positive i'd kill and be willing to get killed for a loved one, if it ever comes to that

7. is there anything in your past that you'd like to do/try again?
~ jump off a bridge into water!

8. whats your favorite kind of weather?
~ bedweather without the rain :P

9. why is this?
~ to enjoy the bed more!

10 . who do you like to spend your nights with?
~ my boys or my books

11. are you an emotional person?
~ very... unfortunately :)

12. can you cry in front of others easily?
~ yes... unfortunately

13. whats something that can always make you feel better?
~ food :D and meme :)

14. what does love make you feel like?
~ empowered

15. and losing love?
~ if love comes to you for a reason, a season or a lifetime, then can you really lose it?

16. are you self conscious?
~ depends on the situation

17. do you think of others before yourself?
~ depends on my frame of mind... and how much sleep i got... or whether am hungry or not :) sensya, tao lang...

18. where do you see yourself some time next year?
~ still with my husband

19. do you tend to make relationships complicated?
~ well, i tended to, before

20. do you think you'd be able to survive a whole year in jail?
~ sure, why not?

21. who do you feel the most comfortable to go around (with)?
~ hubs!

22. is there something that you're waiting for? someone perhaps?
~ the dialogue :) I just want to have something concrete to hope for, work on and help with

23. one thing you're looking forward to..
~ the many opportunities I can enjoy as a SAHM

24. how do you feel about change?
~ scared, resentful, challenged, excited, enticed

25. any plans this summer?
~ a Baguio trip sana, at least

26. what are your plans for your next birthday?
~ sigh. Have Yakee's birthday planned well?

27. do you think someone out there is in love with you?
~ I can name at least three :p

28. how do you feel right this second?
~ pitiful, because I couldn't sleep last night

29. one word that describes you at this point of your life?
~ promising

30. what do you think about this survey?
~ a nice one for those requiring some sort of reality check, and smething to be thankful for



As a Christmas gift to friends, however, I am not tagging anyone... but feel free to pick up the tag if you want and have time :)

Monday, December 17, 2007

Cash Advance

Most credit card companies offer a cash advance feature. For the pessimist, it is their means to entice you more to go deeper in debt. For the optimist, it is a service that provides a certain amount of security for desperate times. Either way you look at it, such service is here to stay so might as well make it your friend and let it work for you.

Wise people would utilize all possible means, like the internet, to scour it for sites, banks, companies offering cash advance and payday loans with the best rates. They would know that there is nothing wrong about getting some help when you really need it. The internet already allows secure transactions so money can be transferred into personal accounts safely, especially during emergencies.

For people with families, like us, knowledge of such deals is always important because one just cannot be totally prepared for all kinds of crises.

Of course, one must also read the fine print too before engaging in such transactions... I remember a friend before who was charged for her cash advance. She was rather dismayed because the charge was P300 and she only withdrew P200 (as in just enough for travel fare till payday).

Sunday, December 16, 2007

Yakee's Baptism (stories and reviews)

Did anybody know that we've already gotten our son baptized? Ahehe.

We originally thought of just having him christened on his first birthday.... since it'd be more practical in terms of expense, esply since Yakee's birth kinda cost us. But my Mom went home from the US and most elders were superstitious and conservative, so we decided to dip some more into our savings and hold the christening, so that come Christmastime, we can take Yakee anywhere without anyone batting an eyelash.

(and it goes without saying that for this Christmas, nobody is getting gifts from us, we'd just give away loot bags of candies for the kids, and aguinaldo to godchildren but that's it... we've spent on others for years already, it's our child's turn na)

the invitation

Mommy made, of course. Sometimes I wonder if it's tacky to have the invitation printed like a picture (we had it printed at Fujifilm) but it's personalized and saves us money. Unfortunately, we failed to remember that most of our friends can be contacted via web/text so a lot of the invites didn't get distributed.

So yeah, we wasted money too. Hehe.

the Church

Our Lady of Remedies, Nuestra Señora de Remedios, or Malate Church (2000 MH del Pilar, Malate, Manila, 400.5876; 523.2593; 524.6866, feast day: November 20) as it is most widely-known is where hubs was baptized around three decades ago. So it's only fitting that our son also gets baptized there. Anyway, registration for baptisms is only on Fridays and Saturdays (baptisms only on Sundays) at 4:00 PM. And you can only register a week before or several days before your intended baptismal date. And unless you're a single Mom, both parents should register because after you register, the seminar is held for the parents at 5:00 PM (around one hour).

And if you list all Ninongs and Ninangs, you pay P50 ea for them, hehe. I guess that's why the other parents there weren't listing all of them, just the principal godparent pair.

I still have to get a copy of the Baptismal certificate though... they're unlike San Miguel (the one in Malacañang) where you can get the certificate right after the ceremony.

Part of the fee you pay at the Church covers the white cloth (bib-looking) and big candle which will be used for the rites. Sometime during the ceremony, fathers will be asked to light the candle from the Easter candle in front of the altar... then the father passes the candle to the godparents (who will each hold the candle in turn). Also sometime during the ceremony, the principal godmother will put the bib onto the child.

They suggested that every birthday, the baptismal candle be lighted so the family will be reminded of how we offered our child, and our family, to God. Isn't that a nice tradition? Unfortunately though, we lost the candle (the Ninong holding it last left it in his seat and I was too busy getting pictures taken, my bad). The bib hangs from my son's hammock though.

Yakee didn't cry :) I thought i'd cry but I didn't either. And heaven bless us for arriving early, we got seated in front.





The Chosen Godparents (yes, there are more women because we made all our sisters godmommies and two of the godfathers weren't able to attend)



And nope, we didn't run to the Church door...


The Outfit


The Church doesn't require a certain type of outfit for the child since they really want to discourage spending for new clothes... but of course, most parents couldn't help but adorn their babies in the cutest outfits. Baby Jojo braved the pre-Christmas crowd in Divi to buy Yakee his barong while I bought him a polo at Rob.

His only accessory is this black and red bracelet which I lost later that day. I don't really believe it wards off USOG but it's one of those baby traditions i'm keeping. My Mom explained how it works: it absorbs the negative vibes from people when they notice it and comment on it/acknowledge it, thus, sparing the baby. And well, it's true, people do notice it.

The Reception


Jade Vine Restaurant (537 U. N. Avenue, Ermita, Metro Manila, (02)524.8601; 523.7056... look for Sir Joel or Mrs. Lumawig) is a restaurant i've always known was in U.N. but never got to really eat in. Hubs and I actually spent one Saturday combing the area for possible reception venues. Of course, Max's restaurant offered the cheapest packages but we weren't really enticed by it since most christenings we've attended held their reception there (so we have around 5 or 6 of the same souvenir already). We couldn't afford Barrio Fiesta. It was a toss really between Jade Vine, Ibarra's Garden and Aristocrat. Jade Vine was the cheapest although it didn't offer other amenities like Ibarra's and Aristocrat. But since I wanted to be the one to make the invitation and I didn't want a generic souvenir, it was a good choice pa din.

We just weren't sure of the food since we didn't go for food tasting anymore. At worst, we prayed that the food will be okay, if not great... and just banked on Jade Vine's reputation as one of THE restaurants to go to in the 60s (till the 80s).

The package they offered included the venue, food (rice, chicken, pork, fish, salad, noodles, three desserts and a round of drinks), balloons, flower centerpieces and cake. The food was good... with the chicken and eclairs actually great. Their pancit canton tasted really good too, however, the noodles were a tad overcooked. But overall, I would highly recommend them.

The waiters/staff were nothing but attentive and gracious and courteous. As in! I'd get them for the service alone. One time I was comforting someone who cried over something during the reception, the head waiter even approached to ask if anything was wrong with their service. I swear, everybody who attended loved them!

And the place (which was on the 2nd floor and could accommodate 200 actually) was more than well-ventilated... I seriously had to tinker with the air-conditioners because everybody was cold. Hehe.

And their balloons... those we took home are all still properly filled with air. Jade Vine is cool if you want to bring in more so long as they're on sticks and not the helium-filled kind.

Other nice things about Jade Vine... their corkage for an entire lechon is only P300! But we didn't serve lechon anymore since we were already serving a lot of food. Their corkage for a case of softdrinks or beer is also P300.

The Other Cake

Since part of our justification for spending for the Christening is that we're also celebrating Pappie Jojo's 31st birthday, I had to get him a cake too. Due to limited funds, I was really working on a budget. I decided on Kink Cakes and chose this design since hubs is a gadget freak. I was disappointed with how it turned out (the picture of the cake in their gallery looked ok, this one looked old and even funeral-like) but the cake itself tasted good (none of the superb quality I was expecting though, and it's already their Choco Moist cake). I should have stuck with Goldilocks or Red Ribbon, methinks.

But Kink Cakes delivered on time and hubs was extremely pleased that I surprised him with his own cake.

The Photographers

I insisted on getting the services of photographers because I knew I couldn't really both host and document this celebration. Hubs and I are the photographers in parties usually and I wasn't bound to have our son lack photos. Ours was the first christening covered by part-timers Edwin Bejer and company. Sir Edwin texts back :) We met a week before the event at Shang to discuss the details of the event and sort of establish rapport. It helped that Edwin and Rian are both mountaineers and we had common acquaintances.

True to their word, they were at the Church at 10 AM (I think even before pa). The ceremony was at 11 AM. Their baptismal coverage costs P3k with 2 photogs (but they sought permission to let Mark, a friend learning the ropes of photography, tag along with them).

I loved the pictures (which we got 5 days later burned in DVD) but for two things:
1) Slightly too yellow settings (so I kept having to adjust them in Photoshop, and sometimes, not really succeed)
2) Not one of them noticed that the Mommy doesn't have a decent picture with the baby (there were some candid shots but the godparents had better portraits taken with Yakee while I didn't, then again I seldom carried Yakee because he'd only want to nurse, and they respected my space when i'm breastfeeding)

I'd still highly recommend them though. They shot pictures tirelessly and were charming and accommodating. I guess clients can list certain shots they really want captured to guide them. Several times we felt embarrassed and self-conscious especially at the Church because there were these three photographers taking pictures of us. I'm sure some people thought us excessive, hehe.


The tarpaulin

... something I designed in Photoshop and hubs had printed in Divi for P650. I didn't really thought of the size and just told hubs to have it printed at 3x5 feet so I was surprised at how huge it was. Of course, it didn't look overkill when set up on the stage in Jade Vine.

Next time I think i'd just have a tarp printed in 2x3 though.


The souvenir


We didn't want generic giveaways. Good thing I chanced upon MIchelle's blog and we opted to just give away mugs too. "Edong souvenirs and figurines" (0927-4271127 /407-9236) is located in Tabora (Divisoria), his stall is just in front of Banco de Oro (you can also just ask vendors there to point his stall out). The mugs cost P15 ea and they just asked us to e-mail the picture to them which they printed on a laminate-like sticker and pasted on the mugs.

In fairness to them, the mugs don't look cheap (and they're heavy!). We didn't repackage the mugs anymore but I did insert a note inside that went like this:

WHAT'S IN MY NAME?

RUBEUS
Latin for "ruby" it is considered a stone of power and passion, bestowing energy and willpower and counteracting lethargy. Ruby is also associated with health and long life and was adopted by alchemists to symbolize the philosopher's stone (elixir of life). Rubeus is also the perfect name to represent three generations of Arevalos that went before Yakee: Jesus Reuben (father), Ruben (grandfather) and Jesus (great grandfather).

IAKOB Greek name for Jacob (Hebrew) meaning "he who supplants" (supplant meaning 'to supersede another especially by force or treachery; to take the place of and serve as a substitute for especially by reason of superior excellence or power'). The Biblical Jacob, whose firstborn son was named Reuben, was blessed immensely by God.

So please consider this souvenir a lucky mug and use as a COIN-tainer and let us both be blessed!


Hubs also bought these ballpens attached to carabiners which also cost P15. Perfect for men and makukulit kids.

We might not repeat the mug thing though because they're heavy... hubs complained of backpain after getting them. Good thing we only ordered 50 pcs.


I think I was more exhausted hosting this than our wedding... but after the event, we went to MOA for pizza pa :)

Yakee was mostly sleeping the whole time. I felt senti during the prayer about how far Jojo and I have come and how much farther we have to go. Not only are there more responsibilities and challenges and hurdles, there are also these new adventures to look forward to.

And it was really tears-producing to look at your man across the room and reaffirm that you're with the right one. Yakee, in all his cuteness and promise, is just a happy bonus.

The best is yet to come...

Saturday, December 08, 2007

Two Months Two Soon


Yakee officially turned two months yesterday... his Pappie couldn't be around because he had to work. I made sure I saved him some of the cheesecake, cake and carbonara though... esply the cheesecake and carbonara because I slaved making them.

At two months, Yakee has better control of his back and neck bones/muscles... which can prove a challenge to his handlers. And his sleep/feeding cycles keep changing almost every week, reducing me to breakdowns and further wreaking my own body clock. He plays a lot now, interacting with people by cooing and being charming... and fussing when nobody's playing with him (which can prove hard when he decided to play starting 3 AM).

I love the child to bits but find myself sometimes too depressed to respond to him... the exhaustion is also aggravated by the fact that I fear i'd end up hurting him, not intentionally, but accidentally. Which was why I couldn't bring myself to stand up this morning to soothe his cries with a dance, because my back, hips and CS scar are all aching... and I was too sleepy and tired I just know i'd drop him. And so I cried for hours.

The thing is... we actually have a lot of good and good enough days. But when it's a bad day, it gets really bad for me. I guess it's because am mostly operating on pure adrenaline, because good days mean around four to six hours of sleep only (bad days mean as little as fifteen minutes). And it's not like I don't have help... hubs and cousin and sister all pitch in, but mostly around the daytime (when I can't sleep no matter what I do and just end up in a sort of daze).

Sigh. Unfortunately for me, I just can't nap like hubs at a drop of a hat. Sigh, enough with the nervous breakdown rant :)

Anyway... I can't believe it's been two months already since this little boy was yanked out of my belly. He doesn't seem like an infant anymore (infancy is how long ba?) and I can't help but miss the really fragile him... while simultaneously celebrating the healthy, intelligent, giggly boy that he's becoming :)

I did say there are a lot of good days right?





and here's our pictures at the N@W Christmas Party




and here's a video :)



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Just for the record... I clipped his lashes today. Good luck to him... let's hope they'll at least grow back. He he.

Saturday, December 01, 2007

Review: Giving Birth at Asian Hospital

Fortunately for hubs and I, we had the option of giving birth in one of the bigger and more expensive private hospitals in the country (one that's in the same league as The Medical City, Makati Med, and St. Luke's). Note that I purposefully didn't use the term BEST to describe said hospital... because in terms of competency, PGH will always reign supreme for me, overworked healthcare providers and recycled medical paraphernalia notwithstanding.

Anyway, my OB is top infertilty specialist referral by PGH anyway... and she happens to be affiliated with PGH, Manila Doctors and the hospital where I gave birth, ASIAN HOSPITAL.

I would not deny that giving birth in Asian Hosp was a dream... not because of its reputation (as some of my OB's patients would usually comment, ang sosyal ko daw for giving birth there), but because my SIL gave birth there... and my BIL got to record on video our niece's first few hours at the Huggery (nursery) (with pictures of her still bloody and wailing. Given my neurotic need for documentation, that was a serious incentive!

But my greatest wish was to have my husband in the delivery room with me... to comfort me through the gruelling, horrifying hours of labor. Madocs, as well as the other bigger hospitals previously mentioned, only allow that for Lamaze certificate-carrying couples and you will have to be wiling to pay extra for that privilege. The other bigger hospitals also have birthing rooms, which again will require some extra expense. Asian, however, allows each Mommy ONE person (husband, sister, whoever) to be with her at the DR... and that person is allowed a camera. Hitting two desires with one stone, eh?

But hubs and I still hemmed and hawed... the estimates given us by our OB suggested that we'd save some P10k if we gave birth at Madocs instead. Aside from being closer to where we actually live, my previous confinements at Madocs have made us confident with the hospital already. Heck, the staff there already knew me... and their OB wing's nurses all knew how to properly draw blood and put on IVs.

We even considered switching OBs... and giving birth in less popular hospitals like Lourdes Hospital (in Sta. Mesa) to save on costs. Unfortunately, most of them have a no-Daddy-in-the-DR policy.

Had it been a non-difficult pregnancy, and had it not developed into a possible-high-risk pregnancy (because of the polyhydramnios and overdue thing), and had it not been our first pregnancy, and had I not have a strong history of allergies... we really wouldn't mind giving birth in a lying-in clinic too. But hubs has always been adamant about giving birth in a big hospital, with all the facilities and equipment to handle complications... he was silently scared I wouldn't ever go back alive from the delivery, see.

So anyway, we kept hemming and hawing. But we had my admittance letter made out for confinement at Asian anyway. Turns out, i'd never use that one... because i'd be made another one. I was past 40 weeks and the baby is not yet in position and my cervix is as closed as ever and my baby's amniotic fluid level is still high. Hubs and I decided to have a CS rather than risk anything more...

And Madocs charges 40% surcharge for emergency operations and surgeries during Holidays and Weekends while Asian does not.


admission
Since I was a CS case, I was wheelchaired to the admissions office first (by way of the ER, because we got to the hospital just before 12 midnight and their main lobby as well as basement parking were already closed). We filled up some forms and they took a picture of me which was printed with all my forms.

And then you are asked to pay 50% of your expected expense (if you're a foreigner, you'd be expected to pay full projected expense) based on the room you got (we got the cheapest private one that was available) and the procedure you intend to get. The professional fees of your doctors aren't included here yet.

Hubs was then asked to pay P30k which he did at the Cashier Desk at the ER. Then we were wheeled to our room (1009) at the tenth floor (OB wing). Mommies are weighed and measured before entering the room... and clients are briefed on room use (how often housekeeping passes by, when meals are delivered, which button to press when you need a nurse, how to deal with the bed, etc).


facilities
Facilities-wise, Asian Hospital is like a hotel. I've seen the lobby and private rooms of The Medical City and can safely say that Asian's look more expensive and tasteful.

ROOMS Asian doesn't seem to have an OB ward... the most number of patients that can share a room is four but unless you are all OB cases, you don't really have that option.

Believe me, we tried getting the cheapest possible room, knowing that it affects other charges, thinking we'd just get a private one after the surgery and when we're ready to room-in the baby already.

Anyway, we got their standard private room which costs P2,500 per day. I love this curtain arch by its door that allows for more privacy for the patient (in case you're in varying states of undress and someone else comes in, you're given time to shout that you're not decent without that someone seeing just how indecent you are).

Bed is pushbutton at both sides, so I need not have anyone turning some wheel for me at the foot of my bed to raise me up and down. You also only need to push at the call button for the nurses once, because it won't stop beeping till a nurse attends to you (where she could also deactivate the alert). Aside from the usual oxygen and vacuum thingies, the room also has its own BP monitor mounted on the wall.

A window seat and pullout sofa bed allows your mate to get some rest. Unfortunately, the seat and pullout bed were not designed to accommodate big people like my hubs... both were too short for my 5'10"-5'11" tall husband to stretch his entire body comfortably.

Visiting hours is till 9:00 PM.






GENESIS : DELIVERY ROOM / LABOR ROOM When it's time, you are wheeled into Genesis, this huge room where labor and delivery happens. The labor area is composed of several beds separated easily by curtains. Unfortunately, I didn't really spend so much time there. But it was where they gave me my anesthesia with my IV drip. It goes without saying that the room was spotless, expansive, quiet, and all things nice.

And of course, I didn't really get to see any of their birthing rooms because I was requiring surgery.

OPERATING ROOM I believe it goes without saying that the hospital is equipped with the latest/state-of-the-art equipment and is completely sterile. Anyway, the OR is somewhere near the labor room. They can schedule C-sections every hour, I think (because the one before mine was scheduled at 8 AM, while I was scheduled at 9 AM). True enough, I was inserted my banana bag at 6:00 AM in my room, brought down to the labor room at 8:00 AM and in the OR at exactly 9:00 AM.

I'm not sure if beds in ORs are the same... but I was strapped onto a cross-like bed (at least, they had my arms extended sidewards). What else can one possibly say about ORs?

Anyway, I dozed off because of the analgesia given me... woken when hubs was already asked to come inside in time to take pictures of Yakee being yanked out of my belly. After being offered Yakee for me to kiss for the first time, and for him to latch onto my breasts and all the possible pictures Jojo may want to take, I dozed off again. At 11:00 AM, I woke up and was back in the labor room again, able to feel my toes again. At 12:00 NN, I was back in my room.

HUGGERY / NURSERY Unfortunately, I never got to see Yakee in the Huggery. Because I had to lie flat till 4:00 PM and Yakee is brought to my room for feeding, and rooming him in that night, I just never had the opportunity. The good thing I know about their huggery though is that it's one glass wall where you can enjoy your newborn to your heart's content. There's also no visiting hours (although family and friends wouldn't really stay or visit at past 12 midnight, surely?). So yeah, like our niece Iya, you can take pics and video of your newborn, watch him cry and fuss and self-soothe.


healthcare professionals and other staff
DOCTORS Our doctors were great. The chuwariwap/counterpart/reliever of the anesthesiologist assigned to us immediately visited my room and ran the procedure by me within an hour of being admitted. My anesthesiologist also did the same while I was in the labor room.

Our OB, Dr. Blanca de Guia (Asian Clinic: 771-9343, Escoda Clinic: 524-4946) advised me to have a piece of paper ready stating that I have a strong history of allergy upon admission. This would be clipped to my chart and doctors/nurses would already know what to do. So I printed two instructions on a piece of orange paper (strong allergy history and intention to exclusively breastfeed barring complications) which was followed by the hospital staff.

So anyway, having been advised... I was interviewed as early as admission of the drugs am allergic to. My anesthesiologist decided to use analgesiacs of a really different make from the ones am allergic to, to avoid reactions completely... and she also decided to not give me the usual after-surgery drugs. Basically, I was given Tramal for pain management.

Oh and yeah, I believe it's the anesthesiologist who was sweet enough to gently caress my face to wake me up to tell me Jojo was already around.

My OB is, I believe, a very good one. She's very no-nonsense and blunt and direct to the point and even cataclysmic... but like what I said, she's well-recommended and I never doubted her competence. And my C-section scar is healing very nicely...

Our pedia is Dr. Pam Caedo (Asian clinic: 771-9256) who is very sweet when she explains things. She also accepts Intellicare cards.

NURSES I'd still say that nurses at Madocs are better in drawing blood and inserting needles in veins... but other than that, the Nurses at Asian are all really nice and competent.

Since they don't have student nurses at Asian, you don't get disturbed in your sleep by so many nurses. Plus, they have this system where aside from all the nurses in that floor, they also assign a particular nurse to you. These nurses (two shifts per day) introduce themselves to you and will answer your call and will generally be responsible for you all day.

I will admit, however, to getting annoyed once or twice with a nurse or two... there was this instance when I was trying to breastfeed Yakee and the nurse attending to me was getting in the way (she was correcting what I was doing but she was actually in the wrong). Oh, and even if you've roomed-in, you or your nurse can request assistance from nurses from the Huggery to help you care for your baby (like show you how to sponge bathe your baby, or change nappies, or swaddle).

Another instance was upon checking out... since it's hospital policy that all patients be in wheelchairs and all babies in bassinets, Yakee and I were separated. The nurse in charge of Yakee got too comfy with Yakee... I didn't mind that she burped him while we were waiting at the lobby for hubs (who was getting our car), but I minded that she took a phone call at the reception desk without handing Yakee over to me (or my cousin).

Oh and there's this instance at the OR pala where a nurse tripped over some stool... and she was carrying Yakee. Good thing hubs came to her (and our precious son's) rescue in time.

OTHER STAFF Housekeeping people bringing in the food, beddings, newspaper and cleaning the room were all polite and courteous and nice. Their bedside manners are all really great and if one could tip them, one would. We did share a chocolate cake with them :)

I guess that's also a plus if you're in a hospital that doesn't have staff who get harried like people in PGH... because you actually get smiles, explanations, prompt service and appropriate assistance.


food
Hospital food is catered by Makati Skyline. In all honesty, i've never been a fan of their fare, believing that they're just so-so. I've attended so many weddings catered by them already, and spending some 3 days eating their prepared hospital food didn't change the way I feel about them. Some food they serve taste really good, some are just weird-tasting (for me) or bland. And nothing exceptional talaga. But at least the fare they serve offer variety, and they also serve snacks (at Madocs kasi, they don't). Every morning too, they'd include this menu for the next day for you to check, in case you want more of/none of a particular dish they're preparing for the next day. I never bothered with the checklist so i'd usually get small portions of everything they can offer.

Another great thing they offer is the PDD, pre-discharge dinner for two, which they serve on the eve of your discharge. They also give you the option on where you want to eat it, in your room or at their restaurant somewhere in the hospital complex. Since we roomed-in and had no one to watch over Yakee, we opted to enjoy ours in our room. It's really a sweet touch for new parents to enjoy.

However, am not sure if this is offered to all patients or just maternity patients. And visitors or bantays have many restaurants/fast-food chains/stores to choose from in the complex for food/snacks... and it is very near ATC, Filinvest Mall, etc.


getting discharged
Once the OB and Pedia (unless you have other doctors that attended to you or your baby, like a urologist, neurologist, cardiologist, allergologist, etc) gave the clearance for discharge at the Nurses' Station, you will be informed asap. Plus, your doctors' secretaries will be calling you to inquire how you want to settle the PFs. They give receipts naman in case you're asked by the hospital staff. You also get an itemized bill for both you and the baby, which will also consider the deposit you've made already... After settling your bill, you will get these clearance slips for the nurses and the hospital guard (I think).

All patients are required to be wheeled out on a wheelchair... and all babies are required to be in bassinets and wheeled out by a nurse. They also provide hotel-like trolleys for all your stuff and every assistant will stay with you till your car arrives by the lobby door.

Before leaving the hospital, do pass by ADMISSIONS again and get your Asian Hospital Privilege Card to avail of future hospital discounts. Love it because it's Yakee's first ID :)


charges
Ehem.

I hope people won't think we're putting a price on Yakee's birth, or bragging in any way. Basta nothing negative. But since I wanted this post to be an objective review of the birth that will assist others contemplating a delivery in Asian, i'd be doing people a disservice if I don't post the charges we incurred.

So, my hospital bill amounted to P31,123.75 (net of Philhealth claim, which was P12,138.00) while Yakee's hospital bill amounted to P10,331.85. Take note, hospital bill :) The PFs we paid amounted to a total of P75,000.00, inclusive of Philhealth discount (P45k for OB, P12k for Pedia, P18k for Anesthesiologist).

Our OB actually gave us a discounted PF because she says she normally charges P50k for a CS at Asian.

Yes, hubs and I exchanged looks of dismay lots of times during discharge time. We had P90k cash and used P30k of it to pay the deposit. That was a sort of wrong move because the PFs all required cash (as opposed to the hospital bill which we paid using our credit card) so hubs had to withdraw more cash pa. Basically, we had to dip in our savings because I still had drugs to buy and we had check-ups the following week (and hubs, suffering from a chronic cough nga, kept going to Intellicare-affiliated doctors at Asian, who kept dispensing expensive drugs that refused to work on him).

Anyway, more details/rants on the hospital charges:

~ You get charged for rooming-in your baby. This came as a surprise because I actually thought it might save us charges from the Nursery. Am not sure if it covers bassinet-rental (which we only used for nappy-changing Yakee since he slept with me or in Jojo's arms the whole time we were there). They charge P500 per day.
~ Newborn screening test costs P705.00, Newborn-blood type and screen (abo rh & dat) costs P860.00 and Otoacoustic Emission (hearing test) costs P495.00
~ You will take home at least two kidney basins, one white basin and one plastic bedpan because you'd be charged for all this (the other kidney basin is charged to the baby at the Nursery actually, and a nurse seems to have taken Yakee's kaya we only got to bring home one).
~ The baby will get a diaper pack to be charged against you... am not sure if they use just one brand but we got Drypers (size small) which was enough to last us during the confinement (eventhough we brought a pack of newborn-sized nappies too)
~ The baby will also get 60 ml Cetaphil (used in washing him, then later on in sponge bathing him)
~ The baby will get his first vaccine (Hep B, P640)) and will be applied eye ointment (P766)
~ I was kinda upset with being charged TWO boxes of examination gloves (100 pcs per box) which cost P370/box. Two boxes because you get charged one as a Mom in your room, and the baby gets charged one while at the nursery. I am assuming it's for the nurses when they clean you up. But the nurses usually came with their own gloves... and you don't get cleaned that often naman to require an entire box. Pramis, this is highway robbery... the hospital should either order in smaller packaging/quantities or just let the nurses use them at will. Sure, we can probably still use it at home... but how many actually don gloves while cleaning up their babies ba? Sus.
~ Drugs used on me include Sensorcaine Heavy, Ephedrine SO 45%, Xylocaine, Methergine, Plasil, Dormicum, Nubain, Evatocin, and Tramal (in case anybody's interested to use the analgesia type used on me because I only got groggy, no nauseous feeling and no curling like a fetus so they can inject me with the anesthesia). I also took Himox and Natalac and Tramadol while I was confined.


Anyway, i'm guessing this is as detailed this will get. Except for the higher professional fees, I wouldn't say that Asian Hospital charges a lot. At least, the experience is worth the hospital fees naman :)

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I just want to stress that though you get what you pay for, not all bigger medical institutions are exactly better. I have heard of numerous complaints about Asian Hosp's Emergency Room and a message board friend had a bad experience at St. Luke's.