Baby... I know I was very unloving and childish today. But still, you kept your patience.
It was the combination of lack of sleep, PMS, hunger and the heat. I was having dizzy spells and aches and whatever... and am saying this not to excuse myself but just so you'd understand.
I'm sorry. But more than that, am grateful. Other husbands might have kicked me in the shin.
Monday, March 30, 2009
Friday, March 27, 2009
Baby Sign Language
At first, I just thought it would be cool to teach my son sign language. It was a very light decision I made which hubby supported. I think I initated when Yakee was around 3 months only, then forgot about it and picked it up again when Yakee was around 8 months or so. He readily learned MILK and EAT.
Now, his sign language vocabulary has grown. And so have ours. It's amazing how even my sister and cousin, and now my brother for my nephew, have learned so much sign language. Thanks a lot to Signing Time videos that hubs got for Yakee.
Yakee loves the videos. He prefers them to any cartoon, Brainy Baby, Galloping Minds etc. videos. He even prefers it to home movies of him! And we all actually love the video too. We haven't gotten tired of all 7 that we play and are learning more and more about incorporating it in our dialogues.
Do I believe that it's making my son more intelligent? Not really. But I credit sign language with my good relationship with my son. Communication is just made all the more easier. Since I have to be creative in teaching the signs, Yakee even has a greater grasp of words at age 1. After all, he signs, says (babbles) and does the sound of a dog. Plus he can identify it in a book. And when he's too upset (like during the time of night terrors) to talk, he immediately signs what he needs to be comforted (he signs HURT sometimes so I know I have to give him extra comforting shushing).
Plus, teaching him sign language has forced everyone of us to go down to his level and interact with him face to face. Such attention and communication has resulted in a happy child.
Plus, I think part of teaching sign language encouraged in him a greater appreciation of his surroundings... after all, how can we teach LEAF if we don't show him different kinds of one?
So now, I am sort of becoming an advocate of signing as well. Not as much as breastfeeding but I am growing passionate about it everyday. And when I hear that someone has a child with developmental delays/challenges, I really ask them to think of teaching sign language.
*~*
We have yet to record Yakee on video signing all the things he can sign though :)
Now, his sign language vocabulary has grown. And so have ours. It's amazing how even my sister and cousin, and now my brother for my nephew, have learned so much sign language. Thanks a lot to Signing Time videos that hubs got for Yakee.
Yakee loves the videos. He prefers them to any cartoon, Brainy Baby, Galloping Minds etc. videos. He even prefers it to home movies of him! And we all actually love the video too. We haven't gotten tired of all 7 that we play and are learning more and more about incorporating it in our dialogues.
Do I believe that it's making my son more intelligent? Not really. But I credit sign language with my good relationship with my son. Communication is just made all the more easier. Since I have to be creative in teaching the signs, Yakee even has a greater grasp of words at age 1. After all, he signs, says (babbles) and does the sound of a dog. Plus he can identify it in a book. And when he's too upset (like during the time of night terrors) to talk, he immediately signs what he needs to be comforted (he signs HURT sometimes so I know I have to give him extra comforting shushing).
Plus, teaching him sign language has forced everyone of us to go down to his level and interact with him face to face. Such attention and communication has resulted in a happy child.
Plus, I think part of teaching sign language encouraged in him a greater appreciation of his surroundings... after all, how can we teach LEAF if we don't show him different kinds of one?
So now, I am sort of becoming an advocate of signing as well. Not as much as breastfeeding but I am growing passionate about it everyday. And when I hear that someone has a child with developmental delays/challenges, I really ask them to think of teaching sign language.
*~*
We have yet to record Yakee on video signing all the things he can sign though :)
Thursday, March 26, 2009
Sweet Hubs
Due to the heat and my inability to work with it, I have run our financial well dry by buying ice cream and having Starbucks frappes a lot. Plus, let's face it, goods are getting more expensive. Even only two years ago, if we spend P5k for groceries, that cart will be chock-full of 'treats' instead of necessities. But now, fresh milk and yogurt ARE treats already and we really can't afford bundles of junk food and expensive cheese and different-flavored ice cream syrups anymore.
But anyway, my point is... we ARE feeling the economic crunch. And since we have, at least, started SAVING a substantial amount, we're feeling the crunch so well of a reduced disposable income.
So yesterday, I made sandwich spread for hubs and cooked his favorite paksiw na lechon manok. I also made sayote soup and prepared his fave iced tea mix. Needless to say, hubs was made happy.
I got a backrub for all my efforts.
And a loving note and a P1k bill for a massage this morning. Since his monthly salary hasn't come in yet, and since he is the one buying all my ice creams and frappes, I know that he's also feeling poor right now, so I really appreciated the generosity. Yet another testament to how much he loves me.
I spent the money on groceries, however. I cooked Chicken in Lemon Butter Sauce for dinner. Twas enough to feel validated so my back can wait. I'll just wait for his salary and get a massage and pedicure then! Hehe.
*~*
Yakee's pedia observed he's a well-behaved boy. Hehe.
*~*
As cash-strapped as I am/we are, I still bought a gallon of Quezo Real at the grocery.
But anyway, my point is... we ARE feeling the economic crunch. And since we have, at least, started SAVING a substantial amount, we're feeling the crunch so well of a reduced disposable income.
So yesterday, I made sandwich spread for hubs and cooked his favorite paksiw na lechon manok. I also made sayote soup and prepared his fave iced tea mix. Needless to say, hubs was made happy.
I got a backrub for all my efforts.
And a loving note and a P1k bill for a massage this morning. Since his monthly salary hasn't come in yet, and since he is the one buying all my ice creams and frappes, I know that he's also feeling poor right now, so I really appreciated the generosity. Yet another testament to how much he loves me.
I spent the money on groceries, however. I cooked Chicken in Lemon Butter Sauce for dinner. Twas enough to feel validated so my back can wait. I'll just wait for his salary and get a massage and pedicure then! Hehe.
*~*
Yakee's pedia observed he's a well-behaved boy. Hehe.
*~*
As cash-strapped as I am/we are, I still bought a gallon of Quezo Real at the grocery.
Tuesday, March 24, 2009
McDo Party with the Family
My brother's son turned one and hubs' entire family attended Ice's party at McDonalds Paco last Sunday. Needless to say, Yakee enjoyed the party, dripping eyes and all.
*~*
Going to bring Yakee to his main pedia for an allergologist/opthalmologist referral for his eyes.
*~*
Going to bring Yakee to his main pedia for an allergologist/opthalmologist referral for his eyes.
Thursday, March 19, 2009
Parenting ABCs
Just wanted to share what we learned from the Parenting Seminar we attended, something we both have to work on and struggle with if we're to be better parents and a closer family unit.
Anyway, before I gve the ABCs, it was greatly emphasized to us that we need structure (routine) in the family. Otherwise, we wouldn't be able to give the following correctly and consistently.
A is for ATTENTION-GIVING
It's attention given to each child. It's attention given without doing anything else, or without your mind being on something else. It's the breastfeeding schedule, the nighttime readings, watching videos together, etc. It's how you greet each child each time you see her (esply if he just came home from school or you just came home from work). It's being there for their first experiences, after gimmicks/play time, before bed, when they are most apt to need you, or want to talk about what happened to them.
This is where structure comes in. Structure is necessary to enjoy your children. And yes, parents have to tailor their schedule around their kids... at least for their first 7-10 years. Work/play when they're at school or asleep or doing something else.
We were told that parents are only allowed ONE NIGHT each week without touching base at bedtime with their kid. Which is why, when Pappie can't be home to say goodnight, we now let him talk to Yakee on the phone before I nurse him to sleep.
B is for BUILDING SELF-ESTEEM / BEING ENCOURAGING
Structure again is necessary when you want to build your child's self-esteem. Knowing what will happen when, and being explained why, will give them a sense of security. Set rules which will help everyone in the family to achieve higher goals (for the family).
Parents are encouraged to avoid malls but rather focus on activities with their kids, even if it is just playing with dough. Also, being positive goes a long way and parents shouldn't go for 48 hours without finding something to praise about each child. Think along the lines of, "You know baby, I really appreciate that you played nice with cousin Ice and shared your toys with him, eventhough I know that must have been hard for you." instead of, "You're so cute! And handsome! And intelligent!"
Lastly, we were told to accept our child for who he is now, not what he could be. Again, enjoy that child that is in front of you right now.
C is for COMMUNICATION
Communicate regularly and well. And know that parents need to earn the right to be heard by their kids which is why they should be involved with their kids. There isn't getting to C without going through A & B. When you do more of A & B, there will be more cooperation from the child when you do C.
Usually, when kids act up, they do not feel validated. So acknowledging that had you been in their place, you would be feeling angry and sad too helps more than we realize.
D is for DISCIPLINE
Kids, even babies, are too smart and resilient not to be disciplined. And discipline is basically the structure and rules your family lives by, it's a lifestyle, not a punishment.
Parents should also remember that there are family rules, but that they are not the rule. Kids shouldn't stop playing because you told them so, but because it's time to wash up for bed. Kids shouldn't eat veggies because you want them to, but because veggies are good for them and will keep them healthy. Plus, we're more likely to take it personally when we think we're the rule (What did Mommy tell you?) and the child misbehaves.
Some areas that house rules should be clear (even to you and your spouse) include morning routine, eating, TV/computer use, play, family activities, visiting friends, sleepovers, interaction with household, telephone use, allowance, study time, prayers and bedtime.
It's also very important to think of the Natural, Logical Consequences when a child misbehaves. Again, structure is key. Say, if he isn't finished eating by a certain time, he might have to go to bed hungry, or there'd be less time for reading with Mom. When he doesn't play nice, he is taken away from the scene for a timeout (1 minuter per year, till about 7 years old, and time resets when child doesn't take the timeout seriously. Yes, parents can hold their child during the timeout, but talking to them about what happened will have to happen after the time's up.) so he'd realize that not being nice gets him to lose precious play time.
Natural consequences are directly related to behavior (when a child does not eat, he goes hungry). Logical consequences are those that violates the social order (not at the dinner table in time, he'd have to prepare his own food).
Of course, all rules should be clear and simple, age-appropriate, enforceable and builds self-esteem. And yes, in time, you can offer (consequence) choices and ways for the child to make amends. And always, you dish out 'punishments' away from an audience and as immediately as possible (he played an extra 30 minutes today, his playing time the next day is reduced by as much).
E is for ENHANCING CAREGIVER RELATIONSHIPS
As important as attention-giving to each child, caregivers should also have a good relationship with each other. There shouldn't be a power struggle between Daddy and Mommy, or Mommy and Grandma, or Mommy and Yaya. Again, kids are smart and sensitive and their self-esteem will be affected by any conflicts between their caregivers.
How can parents parent as a team if they don't have regular talks and dates? And how can your discipline be effective if your yaya does not understand the house rules and end up breaking them when you're away?
Structure provides consistency, which builds a child's esteem and character. It allows him to know his limits as well as be confident about what he can accomplish. It allows him to make better decisions and in time, contribute more to the family's well-being. Why do you think having dinner as a family keeps teenagers away from drugs, crimes and teenage pregnancy? :)
*~*
What a challenge, is it not? Then again, an ounce of prevention (all the sacrifices and diligence and vigilance now) is worth more than a pound of cure (seeking counseling for troubled teens, driving around your area looking for your child who hasn't come in days, dealing with a grandchild when you're only in your 40s, having criminals for kids, etc).
Anyway, before I gve the ABCs, it was greatly emphasized to us that we need structure (routine) in the family. Otherwise, we wouldn't be able to give the following correctly and consistently.
A is for ATTENTION-GIVING
It's attention given to each child. It's attention given without doing anything else, or without your mind being on something else. It's the breastfeeding schedule, the nighttime readings, watching videos together, etc. It's how you greet each child each time you see her (esply if he just came home from school or you just came home from work). It's being there for their first experiences, after gimmicks/play time, before bed, when they are most apt to need you, or want to talk about what happened to them.
This is where structure comes in. Structure is necessary to enjoy your children. And yes, parents have to tailor their schedule around their kids... at least for their first 7-10 years. Work/play when they're at school or asleep or doing something else.
We were told that parents are only allowed ONE NIGHT each week without touching base at bedtime with their kid. Which is why, when Pappie can't be home to say goodnight, we now let him talk to Yakee on the phone before I nurse him to sleep.
B is for BUILDING SELF-ESTEEM / BEING ENCOURAGING
Structure again is necessary when you want to build your child's self-esteem. Knowing what will happen when, and being explained why, will give them a sense of security. Set rules which will help everyone in the family to achieve higher goals (for the family).
Parents are encouraged to avoid malls but rather focus on activities with their kids, even if it is just playing with dough. Also, being positive goes a long way and parents shouldn't go for 48 hours without finding something to praise about each child. Think along the lines of, "You know baby, I really appreciate that you played nice with cousin Ice and shared your toys with him, eventhough I know that must have been hard for you." instead of, "You're so cute! And handsome! And intelligent!"
Lastly, we were told to accept our child for who he is now, not what he could be. Again, enjoy that child that is in front of you right now.
C is for COMMUNICATION
Communicate regularly and well. And know that parents need to earn the right to be heard by their kids which is why they should be involved with their kids. There isn't getting to C without going through A & B. When you do more of A & B, there will be more cooperation from the child when you do C.
Usually, when kids act up, they do not feel validated. So acknowledging that had you been in their place, you would be feeling angry and sad too helps more than we realize.
D is for DISCIPLINE
Kids, even babies, are too smart and resilient not to be disciplined. And discipline is basically the structure and rules your family lives by, it's a lifestyle, not a punishment.
Parents should also remember that there are family rules, but that they are not the rule. Kids shouldn't stop playing because you told them so, but because it's time to wash up for bed. Kids shouldn't eat veggies because you want them to, but because veggies are good for them and will keep them healthy. Plus, we're more likely to take it personally when we think we're the rule (What did Mommy tell you?) and the child misbehaves.
Some areas that house rules should be clear (even to you and your spouse) include morning routine, eating, TV/computer use, play, family activities, visiting friends, sleepovers, interaction with household, telephone use, allowance, study time, prayers and bedtime.
It's also very important to think of the Natural, Logical Consequences when a child misbehaves. Again, structure is key. Say, if he isn't finished eating by a certain time, he might have to go to bed hungry, or there'd be less time for reading with Mom. When he doesn't play nice, he is taken away from the scene for a timeout (1 minuter per year, till about 7 years old, and time resets when child doesn't take the timeout seriously. Yes, parents can hold their child during the timeout, but talking to them about what happened will have to happen after the time's up.) so he'd realize that not being nice gets him to lose precious play time.
Natural consequences are directly related to behavior (when a child does not eat, he goes hungry). Logical consequences are those that violates the social order (not at the dinner table in time, he'd have to prepare his own food).
Of course, all rules should be clear and simple, age-appropriate, enforceable and builds self-esteem. And yes, in time, you can offer (consequence) choices and ways for the child to make amends. And always, you dish out 'punishments' away from an audience and as immediately as possible (he played an extra 30 minutes today, his playing time the next day is reduced by as much).
E is for ENHANCING CAREGIVER RELATIONSHIPS
As important as attention-giving to each child, caregivers should also have a good relationship with each other. There shouldn't be a power struggle between Daddy and Mommy, or Mommy and Grandma, or Mommy and Yaya. Again, kids are smart and sensitive and their self-esteem will be affected by any conflicts between their caregivers.
How can parents parent as a team if they don't have regular talks and dates? And how can your discipline be effective if your yaya does not understand the house rules and end up breaking them when you're away?
Structure provides consistency, which builds a child's esteem and character. It allows him to know his limits as well as be confident about what he can accomplish. It allows him to make better decisions and in time, contribute more to the family's well-being. Why do you think having dinner as a family keeps teenagers away from drugs, crimes and teenage pregnancy? :)
*~*
What a challenge, is it not? Then again, an ounce of prevention (all the sacrifices and diligence and vigilance now) is worth more than a pound of cure (seeking counseling for troubled teens, driving around your area looking for your child who hasn't come in days, dealing with a grandchild when you're only in your 40s, having criminals for kids, etc).
Saturday, March 14, 2009
Nine Year Anniv Date
We attended the last lecture of the Love Institute and Second Moms School on Parenting at Valle Verde I. It was a great morning as we realized the things we have to improve on, the challenges that are ahead, the barriers to the things we want (our fears, our upbringing, etc.).
Hubs was also very sweet and bought me (for Yakee) the complete Anvil storybooks (15 all in all). We got that at a bargain prize of P1k.
*~*
It was sort of a bad decision. I asked hubs if we could drop by the Crocs Megasale since we're in the vicinity already. When I saw the line outside, I already thought that it wouldn't be worth it. BUT I DIDN'T SAY ANYTHING.
It took us an hour to get inside. Then when I saw the line at the cashier's, I thought again that it wouldn't be worth it. BUT I DIDN'T SAY ANYTHING. I was caught in the consumer psyche of having to buy because i've already invested time and effort.
Hubs thought I really wanted to be there and shop, so he also didn't say anything.
It seems really stupid now since hubs and I aren't really brand-conscious folks... but hubs commented later that we shouldn't be sad about our purchases but that we should learn from the experience.
Anyway, Yakee now has a pair... and we bought three of his cousins Crocs mary janes. Pappie also has a new pair of sandals :)
And although this is an unnecessary splurge and we could have made use of our time better, it still validated that we are far more blessed than we usually feel, and that we are really very generous towards our loved ones.
*~*
We capped the day off by buying seafood dinner to bring home and enjoy with the rest of our household.
Hubs was also very sweet and bought me (for Yakee) the complete Anvil storybooks (15 all in all). We got that at a bargain prize of P1k.
*~*
It was sort of a bad decision. I asked hubs if we could drop by the Crocs Megasale since we're in the vicinity already. When I saw the line outside, I already thought that it wouldn't be worth it. BUT I DIDN'T SAY ANYTHING.
It took us an hour to get inside. Then when I saw the line at the cashier's, I thought again that it wouldn't be worth it. BUT I DIDN'T SAY ANYTHING. I was caught in the consumer psyche of having to buy because i've already invested time and effort.
Hubs thought I really wanted to be there and shop, so he also didn't say anything.
It seems really stupid now since hubs and I aren't really brand-conscious folks... but hubs commented later that we shouldn't be sad about our purchases but that we should learn from the experience.
Anyway, Yakee now has a pair... and we bought three of his cousins Crocs mary janes. Pappie also has a new pair of sandals :)
And although this is an unnecessary splurge and we could have made use of our time better, it still validated that we are far more blessed than we usually feel, and that we are really very generous towards our loved ones.
*~*
We capped the day off by buying seafood dinner to bring home and enjoy with the rest of our household.
Nine Years of Us
I didn't really have time to be more particular with the slideshow I made. And due to technical difficulties, I am unable to upload it now. But I really love the song. The first time I heard it, it felt like it was written by me for my husband. I didn't feel it much before, and didn't believe I was worthy of any, or that I could handle the responsibility of being one... but he did turn me into SOMEBODY LOVED.
Baby, I hope you aren't tired yet of such posts and slideshows. I love you. And I love the you I see in Yakee everyday.
To follow na lang yung AVP!
*~*
Good luck to us on our next big project. :)
*~*
Baby, I hope you aren't tired yet of such posts and slideshows. I love you. And I love the you I see in Yakee everyday.
To follow na lang yung AVP!
*~*
Good luck to us on our next big project. :)
*~*
Monday, March 09, 2009
Our March So Far
I have to say, I cannot help but love my husband all the more for being supportive of me as I continue on my breastfeeding advocacy. He took me to the training venue on both days... and we even went on a dinner date last Friday.
Although both tired and sleepy (because Yakee seems to be on another growth spurt whatever), I enjoyed my dinner with him immensely. But what I loved most of all about him this past week is that he didn't go mental on me when I reminded him that he's working too hard, he's forgetting he's also a husband and father, not just a provider. I mean, most guys would go ballistic when more is asked from them.
Now, if only I can remember that i'm not just a wife and mother... but also a woman with something to offer and accomplish.
*~*
Next Saturday, we'd have been involved for NINE YEARS already. When put like that, you can't help but wonder where the years went, how fast it flew.
So many things have already happened to us, in the world, and between us. Sometimes, it feels like it was only yesterday that he first told me he wanted to kiss me. Sometimes, it feels every bit of the nine years. Sometimes, it feels that those things were just a dream, things that happened to other people, because we've changed and grown so much since.
If I was asked then if I expect to still be with him nine years hence, i'd have probably laughed and said NO.
Yes, am glad i'd have been wrong. And I smile to myself when I think of what a great fool I was before, but not fool enough to have turned him off forever, nor foolish enough not to have given him (us) several chances.
Lines from the song YOU'RE STILL THE ONE come to mind...
Looks like we made it
Look how far we've come, my Baby
We might have took the long way
But we knew we'd get there someday
They said, "I bet,
They'll never make it"
But just look at us holding on
Still together
Still growing strong
You're still the one I run to
The only one I belong to
The only one I want for life
You're still the one that I love
The only one I dream of
The only one I kiss goodnight
Love you, Baby.
Although both tired and sleepy (because Yakee seems to be on another growth spurt whatever), I enjoyed my dinner with him immensely. But what I loved most of all about him this past week is that he didn't go mental on me when I reminded him that he's working too hard, he's forgetting he's also a husband and father, not just a provider. I mean, most guys would go ballistic when more is asked from them.
Now, if only I can remember that i'm not just a wife and mother... but also a woman with something to offer and accomplish.
*~*
Next Saturday, we'd have been involved for NINE YEARS already. When put like that, you can't help but wonder where the years went, how fast it flew.
So many things have already happened to us, in the world, and between us. Sometimes, it feels like it was only yesterday that he first told me he wanted to kiss me. Sometimes, it feels every bit of the nine years. Sometimes, it feels that those things were just a dream, things that happened to other people, because we've changed and grown so much since.
If I was asked then if I expect to still be with him nine years hence, i'd have probably laughed and said NO.
Yes, am glad i'd have been wrong. And I smile to myself when I think of what a great fool I was before, but not fool enough to have turned him off forever, nor foolish enough not to have given him (us) several chances.
Lines from the song YOU'RE STILL THE ONE come to mind...
Looks like we made it
Look how far we've come, my Baby
We might have took the long way
But we knew we'd get there someday
They said, "I bet,
They'll never make it"
But just look at us holding on
Still together
Still growing strong
You're still the one I run to
The only one I belong to
The only one I want for life
You're still the one that I love
The only one I dream of
The only one I kiss goodnight
Love you, Baby.
What Couch Potatoes Want
When hubs and I spend weekends at MIL's, we usually get stuck in front of the TV in the second living room, where at least three electric fans cool us as we live the life of couch potatoes. The kids get chased by Yaya and Yaya, SIL and MIL will alternate trying to get us to eat. We actually need more bean bag chairs there to accommodate more of us (esply since hubs invariably ends up hogging a sofa).Of course, given the age of the kids (1, 3 and 4), we may need leather bean bags to accommodate the spills they make. We may also need outdoor bean bags for MIL's garden (or would they be more perfect at their resthouse in Marinduque?) to enjoy some of the afternoon breeze and maybe get away from the heat of the kitchen while SIL bakes the goodies that we love so much (that are making us fat).
Just lounging and eating ice cream, what could be better in this heat?
Sunday, March 01, 2009
When Genes Bite
Yakee has allergic conjunctivitis. After three days of oral and opthal antihistamines, his eyes are not as watery anymore. Plus, he's been housebound, of course, which am sure helped.
I asked MIL if hubs (or any of hubs' siblings) ever suffered from the same, in an attempt to gauge how our allergic history can be affecting Yakee. True enough, MIL informed me that not only did her kids suffer from the same, their Arevalo cousins did too. Apparently, childhood asthma, skin allergies and allergic conjunctivitis is strong in the Arevalo line (aside from other illnesses too).
Needless to say, i'm a little more than rattled. In a way, I realized yet again just how much we bring into our children's lives. We give him our ancestry, the good and the bad of it. And although we can minimize the impact of bad genes and unhealthy lifestyles and secret family scandals in our kids, there are some things that will not be denied.
Good thing we're in a position to breastfeed exclusively, otherwise, who knows how much more trips i'd have taken to the doctor's. Good thing we can afford hygiene and sanitation and overall good health and nutrition for our son.
I'm just worried though that Yakee might develop asthma too. And I really shouldn't be that worried, after all, hubs had it and he was fine. But am worried. Am worried I might not see other telltale signs, that I might not act quickly enough, etc.
*~*
And Yakee keeps getting weird insect bites which drives me lunatic in sweeping and cleaning and disinfecting again!
*~*
I love that MIL, for all her forgetfulness, was a SAHM too, who invested so much of her into her children. It's great that I can verify such health histories from her to guide me in raising my son.
I asked MIL if hubs (or any of hubs' siblings) ever suffered from the same, in an attempt to gauge how our allergic history can be affecting Yakee. True enough, MIL informed me that not only did her kids suffer from the same, their Arevalo cousins did too. Apparently, childhood asthma, skin allergies and allergic conjunctivitis is strong in the Arevalo line (aside from other illnesses too).
Needless to say, i'm a little more than rattled. In a way, I realized yet again just how much we bring into our children's lives. We give him our ancestry, the good and the bad of it. And although we can minimize the impact of bad genes and unhealthy lifestyles and secret family scandals in our kids, there are some things that will not be denied.
Good thing we're in a position to breastfeed exclusively, otherwise, who knows how much more trips i'd have taken to the doctor's. Good thing we can afford hygiene and sanitation and overall good health and nutrition for our son.
I'm just worried though that Yakee might develop asthma too. And I really shouldn't be that worried, after all, hubs had it and he was fine. But am worried. Am worried I might not see other telltale signs, that I might not act quickly enough, etc.
*~*
And Yakee keeps getting weird insect bites which drives me lunatic in sweeping and cleaning and disinfecting again!
*~*
I love that MIL, for all her forgetfulness, was a SAHM too, who invested so much of her into her children. It's great that I can verify such health histories from her to guide me in raising my son.
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