The secret to having a good marriage is to understand that marriage must be total, it must be permanent, and it must be equal.
... which is why I have confidence in the one I have. Heaven knows we're far from perfect (I moreso than Jojo) but hubs and I believe that we only get married once and for good... so here we are.
It goes without saying though, that we found someone good to spend the rest of our lifetimes loving and holding hands with. Others aren't as lucky... or wise.
Pappie, thank you for working so hard for Mommy and Me... love, yakee